Improving Relationships violet flame exercise

VIOLET FLAME EXERCISE
FOR IMPROVING RELATIONSHIPS

A violet flame chalice

Do you have a problem with a co-worker who irritates you? Do you have a relationship with a friend or family member that’s a little rocky? Or do you just want to nurture a relationship that’s going well? The violet flame can help you. It is able to transmute the negative energy of resentment, anger and blame because it has the vibration of mercy and forgiveness. You can use the violet flame to help take the rough edges off difficult relationships and harmonize your interactions with others.

Use the following exercise to focus the energy of the violet flame into any relationship you wish to improve. If visualization is difficult for you, just think about the words of the affirmations as you say them.

Step 1: Preparation

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Think of a relationship that you wish to improve

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Step 2: Center in your heart

Go within and consciously draw all your attention and energy to the point of your heart.
You may want to place your hand over your heart to help you focus your attention there.

Breathe deeply several times until you feel calm and centered.

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Step 3: Opening prayer

Give the following prayer out loud.

By the power of the light and love within my heart,
I send forth violet flame to the heart of:

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(name of person to whom you are sending forgiveness)

I ask that the violet flame of forgiveness also be delivered by angels to everyone I have ever wronged and to everyone who has ever wronged me.

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Step 4: Visualization for improving relationships

Concentrate on the image of the violet flame.

Close your eyes and see this image in your mind.

Now see the violet flame surrounding and interpenetrating your heart.

Next, visualize sending the violet flame from your heart to the heart of the person with whom you are seeking resolution.

See this violet flame expand until you and this person are sealed in an ovoid of pulsating violet flame.

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Step 5: Affirmations

Continue your visualization while giving the following affirmations for about five minutes. Speak them out loud, rhythmically and energetically.

I AM forgiveness acting here,
Casting out all doubt and fear,
Setting men forever free
With wings of cosmic victory.

I am calling in full power
For forgiveness every hour;
To all life in every place
I flood forth forgiving grace.

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Violet fire, enfold us!
Violet fire, enfold us!
Violet fire, enfold us!

Violet fire, hold us!
Violet fire, hold us!
Violet fire, hold us!

Violet fire, set us free!
Violet fire, set us free!
Violet fire, set us free!

I AM, I AM, I AM surrounded by a pillar of violet flame,
I AM, I AM, I AM abounding in pure love for God's great name,
I AM, I AM, I AM complete by thy pattern of perfection so fair,
I AM, I AM, I AM God's radiant flame of love gently falling through the air.

Fall on us!
Fall on us!
Fall on us!

Blaze through us!
Blaze through us!
Blaze through us!

Saturate us!
Saturate us!
Saturate us!

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Step 6: Closing prayer

Give the following prayer out loud.

I am grateful, O God, for the release of light into this relationship. I ask that the action of the violet flame be expanded for the resolution of discord among all people on earth. Fill every heart with peace and mercy. Please protect me and all those serving the light. Let my prayers and affirmations be fulfilled according to your holy will.

Observe the results:

The next time you see the person you've been praying about, notice any changes in your relationship.

Continue giving this exercise as long as needed to improve the relationship.